Medical Assistance in Dying: Young Mother’s Request

On the occasion of the 10th anniversary of the entry into force of the law on end-of-life care, a 26-year-old mother from Albanel recounts the reasons which pushed her to request medical assistance in dying to end her suffering. However, she could also try to obtain specialized treatment to relieve her, but this is very expensive.

About four years ago, Roxanne Allard was diagnosed with trigeminal neuralgia, a disease that affects the brain and causes sensations similar to electric shocks to the face.

Usually, it is caused by an artery pressing on the nerve or by a tumor […]. In my case, it’s my brain […] who has swelling that really bothers my nerveshe explained in an interview on the show It’s never the same.

I still suffer greatly from this illness. It is also called suicide disease because it is neurological pain and does not really get relieved. […]. Even morphine doesn’t take away the painshe continues.

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The young mother tried numerous medications and underwent two surgeries, but her pain invisible persist and interfere with daily life. She notes that her body gets used to even opioids which are successful in calm down a little.

I’m tired of being in pain. I am also exhausted from having to dealer with quietly losing my parenthood because I am no longer able to take care of my children. Fortunately, they are well surroundedshe indicates.

Little by little, I lose a little of this flame of life.

Ms. Allard indicates that those close to her understand her decision to request medical assistance in dying.

My loved ones confirmed to me that they would be with me, that they understood my choice, and that they would respect it, because, firstly, it’s my life, then, secondly, they are really aware of the suffering I have.

One last option

After some research, however, Ms. Allard’s family discovered that treatment could help her. This intervention would aim to destroy the nerve which causes him pain.

There are several clinics in Europe or the United States. On the other hand, the costs are immense. We are talking about $150,000 to have the last chance, as we can call it, for my sufferingsays Roxanne Allard.

His relatives therefore launched a crowdfunding campaign to try to raise the amount necessary to pay the costs associated with the treatment.

Not knowing if she will be able to benefit from it, Roxanne Allard says she is serene faced with his choice to receive medical assistance in dying.

She confides that she is writing a book about her experience and that she plans not only to travel but above all live a beautiful last moment with his loved ones.

With information from Myriam Gauthier