Jennifer Lopez once again caused a stir thanks to her candid interview where she admitted to feeling unrequited love, prompting a sharp reaction from her ex-husband.
They don’t have it in them
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Singer and actress Jennifer Lopez is known not only for her career, but also for her turbulent personal life. But after a recent interview on The Howard Stern Show, she’s back in the spotlight — this time for words that deeply touched one of her ex-husbands. In an open interview, JLo admitted that despite her successful career and numerous relationships, she never felt truly loved. “What I’ve learned isn’t that I’m not worthy of love—it’s more that they can’t… They don’t have it in them.” she said honestly.
They gave her material things, but not love
The conversation also touched on her past partners. “They gave me everything—all the rings, all the things I could ever want, didn’t they? They tried to give me houses, rings, marriage—everything.” explained the singer. JLo also touched on her latest breakup with Ben Affleck, which she described as cleansing: “It was the best thing that could have happened to me. It really got me started on my journey — I had a therapist, a marriage therapist, an addiction coach… I had everything.” admitted
Stop humiliating us
However, her honest statements really enraged her first husband, Ojani Nou, who lived with her only shortly after her career started. JLo and Noa married in 1997, but divorced less than a year later. Ojani reacted publicly – and without a napkin. “Stop putting us down. Stop putting me down with your victim card. We’re not the problem. Not me. You’re the problem.” he wrote openly on Instagram. His words were sharp and personal. “You’re the one who couldn’t keep her panties on. You’ve been in love several times. You’ve been married four times. And you’ve had countless relationships in between. You’ve had good relationships… like me.” he bequeathed to his famous ex.
I’m awesome, I’ve never lied
Ojani claims that he was sincerely in love with Jennifer and was willing to sacrifice everything for her. “I am a wonderful, loving person, honest, faithful. I have never lied to you, I have never misbehaved, I have never cheated on you,” he stated. According to him, it was Jennifer who lied and cheated. “I was good to you. I’m too good a man for you. You chose to lie, cheat on me, and even though I stayed… You begged me to keep the marriage whole and avoid bad publicity.” he mentions.
Ojani Noa – the first husband with long reverberations
You should be ashamed
Ojani Noa says today that Jennifer took the “fast track to career and fame” regardless of the consequences. “Without caring what I did, you wanted to continue cheating and lying. Finally tell the truth… You should be ashamed, you should be ashamed of yourself.” wrote. It is not the first time that he commented on their short marriage. He admitted to the Daily Mail even earlier that the divorce with Jennifer hit him hard. “I was the first, the trailblazer. I was there at the beginning of her career, supporting her, dealing with her anxieties and insecurities. I was a really good husband. Once she got what she wanted, she didn’t need me anymore.” he said bluntly. He claims he did everything to make their marriage work, but he says Lopez prioritized work and fame. “I put a lot of time and effort into loving her. But when you’re with someone, you have to spend time with them and not just think about being on camera.” he added.
A former waiter who became her shadow
Ojani admitted that he was most affected by how the public portrayed him after the breakup. “When I was with Jennifer, I never looked at another woman, but I felt that I was seen as the bad guy. Her people wanted to portray her in a good light for the movie, the album… and made it seem like I didn’t want to be with her, but the opposite was true.” he explained. According to him, producer Sean “Diddy” Combs, with whom Lopez started dating shortly after the divorce, was also responsible for the end of the marriage. “That’s where the deception, the lies, the breakup started,” Noa claims.
After their divorce, he received 50 thousand dollars as a settlement from the singer. He later wanted to write a book about their relationship, but JLo sued him for breaching a non-disclosure agreement. The court ruled in 2007 that he must not “criticize, defame or disparage” Jennifer Lopez.
However, even after all these years, Ojani seems to be keeping his mouth shut – and his message to his ex-wife is clear: “We’re not the problem. You’re the problem.” MORE PHOTOS WITH OJANIM IN THE GALLERY HERE!
