The Allure of Japanese Manners: A Honeymooner’s Perspective

Japan’s reputation for remarkable manners and deep-rooted courtesy often intrigues visitors from around the globe. A British couple, Sam and Mina, recently experienced this firsthand during their honeymoon, finding themselves particularly struck by one specific aspect of Japanese behavior.

The couple’s journey highlights how deeply ingrained politeness is within Japanese society, offering a fresh perspective on cultural differences.

Japan as a Dream Destination

For Sam and Mina, choosing Japan as their honeymoon destination was a long-held aspiration. “Japan was always on my list of places I wanted too visit,” Mina exclaimed, eagerly anticipating the culinary delights and cultural experiences the country had to offer. Their two-week itinerary included iconic cities such as Tokyo,Kyoto,Hiroshima,and Nara. While the Osaka-Kansai Expo was underway, they opted to focus on a more concentrated exploration of other regions, acknowledging the time constraints of their trip.

The “Both Hands” Gesture: A Symbol of Respect

What particularly caught the couple’s attention was the common Japanese practice of using both hands when giving or receiving items. This seemingly small gesture resonated deeply, highlighting a cultural difference compared to practices in the UK.

I felt that there are differences in habits. for example, they buy something, change, or hand it over with both hands.

In Japan, presenting items, whether gifts, change, or products, with both hands is a sign of respect and consideration. This custom stems from a culture that highly values politeness and courtesy, frequently enough perceived by foreigners as an integral part of Japanese hospitality. This extends to business settings, where exchanging business cards with both hands is standard practice, contrasting with the more casual one-handed approach often seen in Western cultures. According to a 2024 survey by the Japan National Tourism Organization (JNTO), over 70% of foreign visitors noted Japanese politeness as a key positive aspect of their trip.

It’s a habit we don’t have,but rather than feeling it’s strange,I just feel it’s a different habit.

Cultural Exchange and Lasting Impressions

Sam and Mina’s experience underscores the power of cultural exchange in creating lasting memories. Their observation of the “both hands” gesture serves as a reminder of the subtle yet significant ways in which cultures express respect and consideration. As they continue their honeymoon,their journey promises to be filled with further discoveries and a deeper thankfulness for the nuances of Japanese culture. The couple’s experience reflects a growing trend of cultural tourism, with travelers seeking authentic and immersive experiences that broaden their understanding of the world.